The Colors on the Track…

Day 39 of my 365 Days of Dreads. Almost done for the night… it’s been a very long night. About to crash. One more coat to the nails and I am done! Need to be up early and see if school is closed for the day with this snow that is coming down! Went to Spyder’s Cub Scouts meeting at Lightning Speedway in Livonia tonight. I got frustrated for Spyder, being put into another situation where color is of the importance. It was totally awesome! Slot car racing!!! The only issue was that they were color coded tracks and cars. For those boys not racing, they were “in charge” of standing on the outside of the track, catching the cars when they flipped and putting them back on their appropriate lane. The “dude”, yes, he was just that, some old dude, almost caught my foot “accidentally” up his… Oh, I mean, there was this surly gentleman working there that kept spouting unkind remarks at my son, who stood jumping with excitement at the end of the track, yet with his hands in his pockets the whole time. “You aren’t going to catch any of them with your hands in your pockets,” he would bark at my frustrated son. I tried to do my best at standing by Spyder’s side to direct him to the correct lane and such. I have to remember that people can’t see what makes things so darn difficult for him…

I was the only female there, other than the younger sister of one of the Scouts. It was kind of cool for one of the dads to hold the Lemur King so I could race a couple laps. The Lemur King was not having it. He was ready to go home and go to bed. I have to say… that is exactly where I am at.

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Take a Seat

I find it entertaining that the Lemur King is now pushing to take over his big brother’s chair…. We have learned that the boys need to be fairly close to the television in order for them to see it, with eyesight ranging from 20/50 to approximately 20/80. Finding the appropriate seating element has been quite the task to say the least. The television has to be low in order for them to see it, but then when they sit down, no one can see around their heads. Over the years I have tried those little foam couches, outdoor chairs, child sized rockers, etc. It seems that each of them has their downfall just as everything else. For the past year we have resorted to, “Spyder, can you move to the side please?”

Now there are two heads to see beyond! I am grateful that they can still see at all, please don’t get me wrong, it’s just that these little obstacles can seem like such a big deal sometimes. My body and heart use to be able to take these hurdles with much more grace. Now I just want to stomp my feet and pout. For now I will try to handle with as much grace as I can muster and let LK keep pushing his way into his brother’s seat. Let’s label it a “bonding experience”…